KINGDOM SPOUSE PRAYER | Meet & Marry Your God Ordained Spouse
God sets the solitary in families: he brings out those which are bound with chains: but the rebellious dwell in a dry [land]. Psalms 68:6
Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him. Genesis 2:18
And Isaac called Jacob, and blessed him, and charged him, and said unto him, Thou shalt not take a wife of the daughters of Canaan. Genesis 28:1
MARRIAGE STATEMENTS
Father, You consider it a good thing when a man finds his wife and the Lord favors him (Proverbs 18:22).
Father, Your word says that marriage is honorable (Hebrews 13:4).
I have faith that the promises in Your Word are true, that the Lord’s hand saves, and Your ear hears (Isaiah 59:1).
Lord I stand on your Word that you set the solitary in families (Psalm 68:6) and you make the barren woman to keep house, and to be a joyful mother of children (Psalm 113:9).
By faith and not by sight (2 Cor 5:7) I believe your Word is true and that I will be blessed with a family that brings me great joy.
MARRIAGE PURPOSE DECLARATION
Father, You designed marriage so that man and woman can work together; help each other if one of us falls; keep each other warm at night; and fight together against our common enemy. In Christ, woman is not independent of man nor man of woman, but we are meant to rely on each other and support one another (1 Corinthians 11:11).
Father, marriage is valuable to You. You say that a prudent wife is from the Lord (Proverbs 19:14), and a wife of noble character is worth far more than rubies (Proverbs 31:10), which tells me that You highly value a wife refined by the Word of God.
REVEAL MY SPOUSE REQUEST
Father, in the name of Jesus, I ask that You would reveal to me the godly spouse you have chosen for me.
And Jacob kissed Rachel, and lifted up his voice, and wept. Genesis 29:11
Abba Father, prepare my spouse to be a pillar of strength and morality, a pillar in my household, in ministry, in Your heavenly courts Father, a pillar of prayer, a pillar of faithfulness Father, to you and to me.
Most High God, I ask that You would protect my future spouse from sin, harm and backsliding. I pray that he/she may locate me, recognize me as the spouse that You chose for me, to live a long life alongside me.
Father let me not idolize the idea of marriage, a wedding, or an engagement ring in my heart (Exodus 20:3).
Father I repent for any prior rebellion, pride, or unbiblical beliefs I have had that blocked me from Your intended covenant of marriage.
Father, in the Name of Jesus Christ, I bind and cast out any unclean spirit within me that does not agree with the marriage You planned for husband and wife.
Father as You prepare my future spouse, help me focus on renewing my mind to good discernment of Your Perfect Will.
Father, let me not rely on my own understanding (Romans 12:2) and try to act in the flesh to find my spouse without prayerful consideration of Your instruction.
Abba Father, keep me from attaching myself to any wrong person by my deceitful heart (Jeremiah 7:14), soulish lusts (1 Peter 2:11) or crafty seduction (2 Tim 3:13).
Father guard us both from being unequally yoked with unbelievers or lukewarm believers, whether in courting or marriage, in business partnership, or in fellowship. (2 Corinthians 6:14)
Lord heal my heart and bind my wounds and please do the same for my future spouse. (Psalm 147:3)
Lord God I offer my body as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to You, which is my reasonable service (Romans 12:1).
Lord, guard my sexual purity and the sexual purity of the spouse you have for me (Hebrews 13:4).
Father, in the Name of Jesus Christ, free the both of us even now from any unknown hindrances to a healthy and godly marriage. You are the one who redeems our lives from the pit, who crowns us with love and compassion, who satisfies our desires with good things (Psalm 103:4-5).
AGREE WITH THE WORD OF GOD
Father I pray that you bring me a spouse whom You know, who listens for, knows and obeys Your voice (John 10:27).
Please bring me or lead me to a spouse who will cherish me and build me up (Proverbs 31:28); a spouse who will honor me (I Peter 3:7) and our marriage covenant made before God (2 Kings 23:3); a spouse who will be a godly parent, knowing the husband’s role as spiritual head, protector and provider and the wife’s role as helpmeet (Eph 5:23)(Genesis 2:18); a spouse that I will be attracted to physically, emotionally, and spiritually (Song of Solomon 1:2,15,16).
I agree and pray that the husband in our covenant would be prepared to love the wife as his own body, praise her (Proverbs 31:28) and not be bitter against her (Colossians 3:18), remembering that he who loves his wife loves himself (Eph 5:28).
I agree that the husband is to live with his God-ordained wife according to knowledge of the things of God, honoring the wife as having a smaller and weaker body frame, and honoring her as his co-heir of salvation, understanding that his neglect of honoring his wife can hinder his prayers (1 Peter 3:7).
Lord I agree that the husband should be prepared to demonstrate spiritual headship in the house that the wife can ask the husband about the things of Christ and he can answer (1 Cor 14:35).
I agree and pray that the wife in our marriage covenant would have wisdom and kindness on her tongue (Proverbs 31:26).
Lord, prepare the wife to be subject to her God-ordained husband, whom You chose for her, that he may be won without a word by his wife’s respectful and pure conduct (I Peter 3:1).
Lord help and prepare the wife to labor side by side with her husband in the gospel (Philippians 4).
I confess Lord God that Jesus Christ is before all things, and in Him all things hold together (Colossians 1:17). Father, the Lord Jesus Christ is the One who can glue to me the spouse You have chosen for me, that we would live out our marriage in a way that glorifies and honors You (1 Cor 10:31).
And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they seemed unto him but a few days, for the love he had to her. Genesis 29:20
Father, thank you for preparing my future spouse and I to love Christ Jesus with all our heart, mind, soul and strength — to be believers after Your very heart (Matthew 22:37). Let us be meditating on Your precepts day and night, and bring us both success in all we do (Psalm 1, Joshua 1).
Bless us and fill us with the knowledge of Your love (Philippians 1:9) and Your Holy Spirit (Matt 3:11, Acts 1:5). May we always abound in joy and in the fruits of the Spirit (Romans 15:13).
Lord, keep our eyes to look away from anything that would tempt lust (Job 31:1), and away from all other wicked things (Psalm 101:3), keeping our ways and hearts pure (Psalm 119:9-10).
I pray that both myself and my future spouse would have a genuine high regard for purity in singleness, righteousness in life, and the sanctity of marriage, understanding that You will judge the fornicator, the sexually immoral and the adulterous (Hebrews 13:4, Eph 5).
Father prepare us to treat each other with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace (Ephesians 4:2-3).
Lord God, instill in both of our hearts Your definition of love – a love that is patient and kind; a love that does not envy or boast; a love that is not arrogant or rude; one that does not insist on its own way and is not irritable or resentful; a love that does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
Prepare us both that no corrupt communication would proceed out of our mouths, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace to each other (Ephesians 4:29, Proverbs 21:23).
Prepare us so that we would have the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Lord grant us hearts that are free from selfish ambition or conceit, and that in humility we would count each other more significant than ourselves.
Lord prepare us to be able to follow Christ’s example, being willing to give up what we may be entitled to and willing to serve one another in tangible and sacrificial ways (Philippians 2:1-8).
Father, I yoke myself to You and give you my heavy burdens (Matt 11:30) so that I bring no heaviness but rather strength to my marriage (Psalms 119:28).
I ask that my coming spouse also knows how to yoke himself / herself to the Lord Jesus Christ and enter into His rest.
Father, I will find things to be thankful for while I hope for better things, with patience during trials but unceasing in prayer toward my goal (1 Thes 5:16).
In this period of waiting, I will contemplate my betrothal to You Lord, understanding the body of Christ, the church, is betrothed to the bridegroom and being prepared for the wedding supper of the Lamb (Revelation 19:7-9, 2 Corinthians 11:2, Isaiah 54:5).
Father of Lights, I will not be anxious, but as I present my requests to you, flood me with the peace that surpasses all understanding so my heart and my mind are guarded in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:6,7).
Blessed Redeemer, You never come late. (Jeremiah 1:12). In Mark 11:24 Your Word declares that whatever I ask in prayer, to believe that I have received it, and it will be mine.
Father, in Your time, You make all things beautiful. (Eccl 3:11). Your Word says the Lord will perfect that which concerns me and that your mercy endures forever. And so I pray you will not forsake me, who you created (Psalm 138:8) to love, worship and serve you (Deut 11:13).
Amen.
Worship and Give Gratefulness
Worship the Lord and thank Him for what he has done for you since you prayed last, even if it was just yesterday. Always take the time to list and thank Jesus Christ for every blessing that comes into your life, whether great or seemingly small. Show God that you love His people as He has loved you.
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